What kind of mind-set do we need to have our extreme success in life

TABLE OF CONTENT

• Mindset: the psychology of success.
• What is the mindset?
• Growth vs Fixed mindset.
• What kind of mind-set do we need to have our extreme success in life.
• How to develop Growth mindset.

In our daily activities, we are achieving success in some work every day. Sometimes we need to set our minds on achieving this success, but sometimes it comes automatically on the way.

In order to achieve ultimate success in life, we must have the ultimate mindset. If you have already reached to the first stage of success in life, that is, you set goals, the second and most important step is to make the final mental preparation.

                                                                           

Many students or job seekers and many businessmen work restlessly, and try to push themselves in their own field but fail in the final stage. The main reason for this is that all these individuals are not prepared themselves mentally.

We see people with two types of mentality, the type of mentality that most people in this world identify with is a fixed mindset. People with this type of mindset usually leave everything to their own devices, believe that whatever is to happen must be happened, and also believe that 'no matter what we do, the situation will never change'. All these people are guided by the situation and they are not able to handle any challenging situations. All these people pay more attention to criticism and pay attention to the words of others having no own opinions. They usually go one step forward and two steps back in any work. Most of the time negative thoughts pop up in their mind.

There are very few people who have a Growth Mindset. These kinds of people know very well that they can create changes. They are always focused on their goals. They are constantly trying to improve themselves. Everything has potential for them.  Even if they temporarily fail at something, they learn from it. All these individuals are extremely self-confident. They do not worry if immediate results are not forthcoming. They know that today or tomorrow the goal will be achieved. They are very much passionate about their goals. All of these people know that if a person in the world is successful to do anything, then I can learn to do so.

In order to achieve great success, you have to shift from the fixed mindset stage to the growth mindset stage. In order to bring about this invaluable change in yourself, you need to change some of your beliefs and take a few small steps. 

Adopt this belief:-

• If anyone can do, you can also learn or be able to do so.
• There are so many opportunities are there in this universe.
• You are there to serve a great purpose.
• Failure is not for you, every single one is an important lesson.

                                                                         

Now come to the point about what steps to take:-

• Start with the 3 'P's:- That is purpose, passion, and perseverance. Find Out your purpose, what purpose you want to serve for yourself, for your family, relatives, friends, and as well as for this universe. Then move with your passion. You may have multiple passions, take one by one and find out which one is matching with your purpose, and see all the possibilities and their results. After that go for the last 'P' which is perseverance. Hard perseverance will make your path easier. This is such a quality that allows you to continue trying to do something though it is difficult. Make it your habit.

• Enjoy the journey:- Enjoy every step you take to reach your goals. If you need to learn something new, learn it, accept all the challenges, and face them face to face. Being steadfast in the goal, bring flexibility within yourself along the way. Without thinking about how long after success will come, be fully engaged in the process of the journey and take action.

• Do not succumb to any temptation:- Different types of advice will come on the way of your journey and even alluring offers may come. Staying steadfast in one's goal at such a moment is a big challenge and test for oneself. To get rid of temporary pain, to get comfort, if you fall into the trap of greed, your goal will remain elusive.

• Turn insults into your strength without breaking:- No one else knows your purpose, they have little idea about your goals, no one understands your intentions, and they only have a vision of your results. Most people again believe in immediate results, if they do not see the results naturally, they will make awkward comments, and insult you.  Strengthen yourself mentally, and motivate yourself without being disturbed by this.

                                                                           

• Don't lose in the fog of confusion:- There are a number of people, especially those with fixed mindsets, who get lost in the fog of confusion. After walking one way for a while, they take another way. After trying one thing for a while, they get busy with another thing. Sometimes they walk backward. Their problem is very simple, they do not know what their main outcome is and it is not clear what they want. The way to get rid of it is to talk privately with your mind at the beginning of goal setting 'what exactly does it want?' Be specific about your outcome, how you feel about, see about, and the sound likes. Visualize Outcome before Goal Setting, feel that it is in front of you right now.