How to be Happy and Prosperous

Are you depressed about wondering how to deal with the frustration?  Do you miss the happiness and joys of life?  Do you feel like you are going through a difficult situation?  Are you looking for a way to overcome the current challenges and want to become happy and prosperous in your life?

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There may have many happy events in your life, you have had happy moments, but you have lost them.  Maybe you have become restless thinking about how to be happy and prosperous in life. 
Here we will not only talk about bringing happiness back into our lives, but we will also learn how to be attentive, feel encouraged, and feel energetic from within. 

Yes, you can make yourself one of the happiest person in this world again. I know you must be thinking "How can I be one of the happiest people in the world again! I don't have enough wealth, I don't have enough money, my love has left me, my business is not making a good profit, I am too much busy to cope pressure of family and work, my child is not concentrating on studies, etc., etc. Different kinds of thoughts may run through your head. 

Now tell me, if the cause of your unhappiness is one or more of the above-mentioned incidents, is there no way to come out of them?  Or is there nothing in your life that can make you happy?

When I use the word 'happy', your mind starts to search for the reasons why you are not happy, but there are many things in your life that can make you happy. If I come to explain it according to psychology,  I will first mention that happiness is one of the greatest resourceful states of our mind. It is true that with this state of our mind, we combine the various objects of the external world, but in fact, happiness is our inner wealth. That is why external objects are not so important when it comes to being happy. You can leave the key to this invaluable resource box, which is inherent in you, to something or someone else in the external world, or you can keep it in your own hands, whatever you choose. If it is controlled by an external object or person, the lack of them will make you unhappy. An external object or person can never be permanent for life, ups and downs or adequacy-inadequacy will remain there, and accordingly, the graph of your happiness will also be controlled.

Let us now take a closer look at this important topic of how to feel happy from the inside.

Re-program your mind: 

Your mind is the treasure of your happiness, so first of all you need to re-program it. If you feed good thoughts to your mind, it will give you back good feelings. What kind of thoughts do you have most of the time that affects your happiness most and at the same time how you are perceiving any event, what meaning you are giving in this regard, and the feelings that are generating in your mind are constantly affecting your mental state. In other words, you are actually becoming what you are feeding to your mind, your behavior is becoming like that. 
If you want to fill your mind with beautiful creative thinking, then you need to develop some new living habits like reading books every day, rising early in the morning, doing yoga, meditation, etc.. These are very powerful tools to bring back peace and happiness. If you do these things regularly, you can feel quite energetic. 

Take care of your health: 

The body and the mind combine to form a system by which we are governed. If one part of this system is not supporting it will influence the other.  If your body is not fit, no matter how much you feed good food to your mind, it will not accept them, just like when you have a headache, you feel uncomfortable at your dear friend's marriage party. 

So in order to keep yourself healthy, you must make small changes in your daily routine and keep the exercises there. Add yoga, exercises, running, or sports to your daily routine.  Wake up early in the morning and get a little out of the house.  The calm breeze, the open air, the open sky, and the open environment will make your mind much more fresh and captivating. Along with this, follow a healthy diet. 

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If you feel upset or demotivated at any time, immediately change your physiology and bring it in a positive body language, i.e. shake the body, widen the chest, straighten the neck and head, and you will see your mind shift to a resourceful state. 

Strengthen these two pillars to bring happiness back to life and pay close attention to a few small but very important things.

• 1) Increase contact with inspiring people and completely abandon those who humble themselves or tell stories of sadness.

• 2) Listen to music to keep your mind fresh. Listening to music is a very powerful way to keep yourself happy. Music activates the stimulation system in the brain very quickly.  By listening to music, and avoiding unnecessarily wasting time on social media, your happiness will wake up from within. 

• 3) Isolate yourself from any negative news or criticism.  These create thunderstorms in the mind and commotion in the mind. Negative news and negative events program your mind so negatively that your mind becomes busy searching for the same things in your real-life situation. Whatever you are looking for it will come in front of you. 

• 4) Most of the time keep yourself busy in any activity. There is a lot of productive work throughout the day, there are many things to be done on your personal development, keep yourself engaged on those things, and you will see that negative thoughts will not come to mind.

• 5) Re-live your past happy moments, recall them again and again. Another way to enliven your happiness is to reminisce about your beautiful memories.  Whenever you have time, sitting alone, on a journey, or taking a rest, think of an event in your life that made you happy, and you will see the joy has come back to you automatically. 

• 6) Watch cartoons, comedy serials, or videos whenever you have free time. Laughter/ comedy TV serials, movies, or cartoons are very effective for the instant awakening of happiness, there is no substitute for it. Whenever there is a lot of negativity in the mind and feel restless, just watch a comedy or a cartoon movie, and your mood will be changed very quickly. 

If you are happy in life, everything may be changed. Most of us live under the misconception that ' achieving success, finding love, earning money, having an expensive car or a good house can make life happier, and some people spend their whole life dreaming such hope. 

In fact, if you are happy then success in your life will come easily, and the person of your choice will come running to you for love. You can easily earn any materialistic thing starting from money. If you are not happy then even the people closest to you will move away from you, no matter what level of success you have, it is bound to fall down from there. 

Even if you have a lot of money, cars, and houses, you may not have the mentality to enjoy them, you will feel everything like thorns. It will yield a very bad effect on your body and mind. Your anger will grow continuously, you will suffer from depression, and anxiety, and you will become physically ill. So, from this moment on, take conscious responsibility to keep yourself happy, then you will become prosperous. 

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Do you want to get rid of the dark, terrible black cloud of negative thoughts from your life?

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Like day and night, our minds become lighten and darken. When our minds are engulfed in the darkness of negative thoughts, we can no longer do or see anything good in our lives. Just like a beautiful rose in the dark or a delicious food does not matter. When the black cloud of negative thoughts comes to our minds, we run astray. But we can remove this deep dark black cloud and bring light back to life at any time, in any situation. The origin of negative thinking is our mind and the only thing we have control over is our mind.

          Many small events have happened or are happening in our lives and they are taking place in our minds one by one. Most of these events are happy for us and some of them are sad.

          Now, the fact is, which event do you remember the most? If you ask most people about their biography, you will hear them to explain all the tragic events they have and these things became part of their lives. Thus gradually all happiness and harmony disappears from their lives. Now you may think that everyone says' don't think negatively, but what is the way to avoid it?  Let me explain you. 

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          1)Don't share negative events with anyone: Usually people don't like to hear someone's grief, so to say these things in front of someone means to lose your importance which will make you suffer more. 

          If you keep saying negative things over and over again, it will go to your subconscious mind and register and gradually it will become your habit. Instead, keep saying  all about the positive events what was happened to you. Even if no one listens, keep saying in your mind. Enjoy any pleasant moment of life in your mind while sleeping every day. If you do these things every day, it will become your habit and you will be able to gradually come over of your dark life.

         2)Laugh out loud: However, if you are in a negative state, the laugh is very difficult because laughter will not come from inside. The first thing you have to do is force yourself to Lough consciously, gradually it will become a pattern in your unconscious mind. If necessary, read comedy books or watch comedy movies. We do a lot of work against our minds, this time go against your mind and Lough. If necessary, accompany those who can laugh.

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        3) Don't be a victim of guilt: Most of us has a habit of being a victim, instead, learn to take responsibility. No one can hurt you if you don't want to. Remember the mistake is that one of our great teacher, learn from those without being a victim for, and forget the rest. We worry too much about being a victim and wondering what people will say or think. Our lives are not about what people say or do.  If we do something good in our life, it will have a good effect on many people but no one wants to be a partaker of bad.

   

         Negetive thoughts are very powerful. They lead us to the failureness, make us unhappy and unhealthy. Can even summon up to death. We all have the right and the power to be happy. Choice is yours. Think about it, if you are not in this world, what is the value of what you are thinking about?

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How can we become happy

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In fact there is no definite definition of happiness. The meaning and interpretation of happiness is different for different people. Still I would say, Happiness is one of the greatest resourceful state of our mind , characterized by feelings of joy, satisfaction and fulfilment. It is the balance of emotions. Our mind wanders from resourceful state to unresourceful state and vice versa. When our mind is in resourceful state we feel happiness. If we can keep our mind in  resourceful state we can spend most of our time happily. Most of us are trying to find happiness from the outer world. This is the main reason why our happiness disappeared. The outside world can give you the happiness for few moments, never more than that. Your happiness will disappear immediately when your external environment and situation disappears. Happiness will last a lifetime only if we can edify our mind beautifully and create a happy atmosphere inside our mind. We light lamps to remove the darkness of the house, unhappiness is the darkness of our mind. There are so many bright lamps in our minds that if we lighten them we will get our happiness back.These are the countless small happy events that happen in our lives , when we recall them the bright light of happiness shone.

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Our state of mind depends on 'personal internal representation (PIR) and physiology'. Together they create our state of mind. The amusing thing is that one influences other. If we can change one of them , other will change automatically and instantly. Let's find out what they are and how to change them from any unresourceful state to resourceful state.

PERSONAL INTERNAL REPRESENTATION:-

"Events have no meanings ,we give it meaning" . That is, there is no meaning of any event what is happening in outer world ,we give meaning to it as per our perception. Our perception depends on VISUAL , AUDITORY AND KINESTHETIC submodalities. Personal internal representation is the image that is formed in our mind through these three sensory languages. If we can change these three sensory languages ​​of our understanding of the mind, our perception of events will be changed. The meaning of same event seems different to defferent people. If we regard in a slightly different way to the external events that stir our mind, it will create positive impact in our subconscious mind.

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Create a deep belief in your mind that "Everything happens , happen for a purpose". With this belief find out the purpose of what happened to you , what are the positive intention within. For example, if there is an accident in our house, it is normal that our mind will be unhappy. If we want, we can fade our state of mind a lot. How? We need to think instantly about what we can do for the rest of the family. It will strengthen us and take us in a resourceful state. 

    Did you know that a beautiful world exists in your mind? 

      Most of the people keep their mind mucky and unholy. Happiness will not come to you until you have cleansed this world of your mind. To do so, always speak positively to yourself and embrace only the valuable things from what is happening outside.

PHYSIOLOGY:-

In terms of physiology,  basically I am indicating about  the body language. Just as our body language can awaken us, it can plunge us into deep darkness. You will see that when we feel happiness, our chests become wider, our faces become brighter, and our movement become lusty and sinewy. Similarly, when our mind is perturb , it tormented our physiology. If we keep our body language in positive our mind will shift into resourceful state. If for some reason our mind is in unresourceful state and the body posture is in down position, immediately shake the body, widen the chest, raise the neck, bring a smile on your face and you will feel happy. You can't feel unhappy with positive physiology.

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Remember the quote of WAYNE DYER'S "if you can't keep yourself happy, you are burden to someone else".

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