You will surely be successful if these 3 personality get agreed

TABLE OF CONTENT

• The secret to success
• The importance of 3 personalities inside us to be successful in life.
• How to strengthen the foundation of success
• How to combine Dreamer, Realist, and critics

We all strive for success, everyone wants to achieve extreme success. We all work hard and use our intellect to succeed, but in most cases, success does not come as we expected. We repeatedly try to figure out why we are failing or why success is not coming. I would like to introduce to three people with you, if you talk to them in the right way, can make them agree you can overcome any obstacle and move on towards success.

Strengthening the foundation is crucial for any ultimate success and only these three people can build that foundation for you. Surely there is a lot of suspense about who these three people are, and where to find them! Don't worry, I will introduce you to them but you have to take the responsibility of convincing them by talking to them in the right way. It's very straightforward, but because we have no real idea about it, we get demotivated when there is a small obstacle in the way of success and we give up. 

If there is a disagreement between these three people, you will not be able to set goals properly, success is a long way off. These three are needed from the very beginning, that is, when you are going to make a decision to achieve something or to set a goal. Any one of these three personalities can play a major role whenever wants but it is very important to bring these three in balance to create success.

A significant percentage of students, business people, or government employees lose interest in their field because they do not set goals properly. To walk the path without a specific goal, their Powerful Subconscious Mind cannot act on their behalf.  The subconscious mind does not know what to do until a clear picture is created. 

We all dream big or dream of creating extraordinary success and think about how we will fulfill that dream or reach the goal in the future. Sometimes a voice comes from within us that we can't do big things or sometimes we get the feeling that 'you want to do big things but you don't have an exact action plan or strategy.' 

However, all are anxious to get to know these three people, let's find out who they are. In fact, they are none other than the three persons present in me and you. Yes, I will describe them as three persons, you can call them the three forms of our minds. 

The first of these three is 'Dreamer': This dreamer is present in every human being. He dreams about what kind of life we ​​will have in the future life, what we will achieve in life, our level of happiness, what kind of person we will love, what kind of car we will have, and how much wealth we will create, what will be our name & fame, respect. That is, what level of success we will create, what kind of life we will live in the future, the dreamer among us dreams of. This dream makes us feel great and we also try to chase after those dreams at the beginning but after a while, we give up all hope of fulfilling our dream and try to settle down somewhere. Our self-confidence is shattered, and self-doubts arise about our own merits and abilities. 

Now I come to the second person, 'the realist': This majesty person is physically present in us and is constantly working to guide us on the right path. He is engaged in trying to keep us steadfast in fulfilling the dream of the dreamer. This realist keeps on trying to make all the dreams we see come true. He connects our emotions with our dreams. Realist always wants all our dreams to come true, helping us to create specific action plans and strategies so that we do not run towards goals based on conjecture. He wants us to have a concrete process so that our dreams come true. 

Coming to the third person i.e. 'critics': This critic is present in us who does a critical analysis of our dreams and he does it for our good. He tries to show us before our eyes what obstacles will come in the way of fulfilling our dreams, and what complications may arise. We usually try to suppress this third-person by listening to different motivational speakers or watching motivational videos, not trying to hear or understand him. But if we listen to it carefully, we will always be ready for the obstacles in our path, and we will be able to find the right resources that are needed to create our success. 

How to combine these three:

Each of these three individuals, located within each of us, plays a very important role in achieving any of our successes. If you don't have a dreamer, you can't dream big and if you don't have a big dream, you can't achieve something extraordinary. We must not just have big dreams, we must have strategies and need to take the right action to accomplish them. It is not possible to have the right method without a realist, it is not even possible to find the right path that can lead us to the pinnacle of success. Critics help us to understand what is lacking in us and where we need to develop so that we can remain steadfast in our goals despite facing any obstacles in the future.

These three personalities are very good friends of ours, if we can make them work properly for us, any of our dreams can come true. To use these three persons properly, draw three different circles on the floor, mark the first one as your dreamer zone, the second as a realist, and the third circle as your critics' position. Enter the dreamer zone and see your big dreams very well then go to the realist position and see what action plan can be to fulfill your dream, and what to do to reach your goal. Then go to Circle number 3, the Critics position, to see what is wrong with your plans, or what may be the obstacles. Enter the realist zone with the obstacles you may find while standing in the Critics position and ask your realist personality what is the way out of all these obstacles. You see, your partner realist will give you the right solution. 

That way if you can get all three to agree, come to a conclusion with three suggestions and set a specific goal then any of your dreams can come true.

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'MASTERY', the golden way to set goals and achieve them

If the goalposts are removed in the game of football, will you have any interest in playing football? In the same way our minds lose all inspiration if we have no Goal in life. Goal setting is the target to achieve something what you want within a certain period of time. That means setting a specific outline of what kind of success you want to achieve on or health, wealth, love, relationships, job or study and within how many days you want to achieve.

The problem is that, in many cases we fix our goal but we don't know how to achieve them. As a result, after setting a goal for a while, we set it again if it is not complete, then we set another, if not, then after a while, we get tired and leave everything. 

There are two states of goal setting, the first is Desire State where you want to reach and the second is Present State where you are standing right now. The way between these two is our journey or the specific strategy for the journey towards our goal.

How to set your goal or outcome:- Specify your goal at the beginning and write it down. Define the goal, whatever it is, health, wealth, love, relationships, hapyness etc. by the formula which is called 'MASTERRY'.

'M' for Meaningful:- You need to make sure that your goal has a specific meaning and measurable. You should not write anything imaginary or unreal. For example, Suppose you set a goal on health, you will reduce your weight from 75 kg to 50 kg within one month. This is unrealistic. Because losing 25kg of weight in a month may collapse your internal systems.

'A' For Achievable:- Ask yourself if you have enough faith in the goal, you wrote, that is achievable. Examine thoroughly if your mind is interfering the goal you set or if you feel that it is impossible to reach it. Set another goal if your mind interrupts.

'S' For Specific and Simple:- Your goal should be explained in simple language, especially in a few lines. This will make easily understandable to your subconscious mind and the subconscious mind will accept it very fast.

                                                                           

'T' For Time bound:- Set a time for what you want to achieve and write it down. Suppose you want to buy a car, set a specific date for it and note it down.

'E' For Ecology check:- Ecology means checking your inner and outer environment. We can divide ecology into two categories, Internal Ecology and External Ecology. Internal ecology means you have to look at what are your internal obstacles in the way of reaching your goal or how happy you will be if your goal is achieved. 

External ecology means that you need to examine how the environment where you live or the family you live in is hindering your goals or supporting you.

'R' For Responsibility:- You will have to take full responsibility for the goal you are setting and not to put the responsibility on anyone else. For example, if you want to build a good relationship with someone, if you impose responsibility on him or her without taking responsibility or changing yourself, you will never success.

'Y' For Yearning:- Yearning means you will have to have strong will power to fulfill the goal. Only if you have this burning desire you will be inspired and motivated from within.

How to achieve the goal:- You know your present state, you have created your desire state through 'MASTERY'. Now come to the point.

STRATEGIES:- To create a specific strategy is the next step for your journey towards your goals from your present situation. Divide it into smaller chunks to make it easier for your brain to understand. Suppose these little chunks are your milestones . Keep collecting the logistics(money , manpower, knowledge, whatever it's) you need to cross each milestone and move forward. See how easily you have crossed each milestone and enjoy the joy of crossing each milestone (Success) and reward yourself.

SELF-DISCIPLINE:- Keep in mind that the most expensive weapon to achieve your goal is self-discipline. It is the conscious awareness of action and to change our habits that might be holding us back. If you are not self-disciplined you will not be able to take the right action and if you do not take action you will never reach your goal.

CLARITY:- You must have enough clarity about your goal. When you go through the process of ' MASTERY' to set your goal, you will get the total clarity of your goal and this will help you to build the strategies to achieve them. To bring more clarity to your mind live as if you already have achieved your goal or outcome. Visualise about it.

FOCUSED:- Be focused on the efforts towards your goal. Sometimes there may be many obstacles in the way of achieving your goals but never lose focus. You may not be able to keep up with the same pace every day, but that doesn't mean you have to lose focus and give up everything.

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