Why we are cheated and how to cope

TABLE OF CONTENT

• What does cheating someone mean?
• Why Do People Cheat?
• Cheating with health.
• Being cheated on in love and relationship.
• How to cope with cheating.

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What does cheating someone mean?

We usually blame someone else or something else for our cheat. Do you know that greed, lust and desire to self-gratification are at the root of most people's cheat? If you have ever been cheated somewhere in your life, you will surely be able to relate to the explanation I am giving you, and you will be convinced in how important these words of mine are. The desire of getting something easily, without effort, keeping oneself comfortable, in a short time, at low cost is present in most people. Very few people keep themselves out of this greed and they get out from cheating  but many fall into this trap. 

Why Do People Cheat?

The reason why fraudsters are rampant all over the world today and this business is booming day by day because all these fraudsters understand human psychology. They know that though people are cheated once, they will respond to greed again.  They arouse the weakness of the common man with their subtle tickling. They know very well that people are crazy about any free gifts, money or heavy returns. One of the human fillings used emotionaly by fraudsters is the feeling of greed. Whenever these fraudsters highlight that "invest money, it will return double in a few days", most people know that this kind of company will not last, within a few days all will shut down, but the feeling of greed tells people that 'if my money comes out before the company run away, my money will be doubled' and they invests despite being aware of the risk. 

Consider the various free social media platforms, all of which are exploiting people's greed and stealing millions of hours. Everybody consciously knows what is important for a person in every moment of life, yet invests hours and hours every day on these free platforms just to get instant pleasure. 

Most people don't want to do anything but want to get everything in their life. In order to do something, they have to get out of the comfortable zone and make an effort, so people are looking for something that, without effort, can easily get everything in their comfort zone. Getting real-time information on how much money people around the world invest in lottery or gambling every day will make you puzzle. All these lottery companies or gamblers have been cheating year after year using human psychology. Many people consider lottery or gambling as the wheel of fortune instead of cheating. 

Cheating with health:

Forget all these examples, think of human health, for greed people does not hesitate to compromise with their health, with their body. Everyone knows that eating spicy foods and drinking too much alcohol can harm their body. Even though they can't control themselves, falling into the clutches of greed, they survives with the partner drug-doctor. Is not the cheater here also the greed of the people? People eat more food in greed than they are hunger and most of the people in the world today are victims of taking such greedy food that is cheated ownself. In the lure of easy tasty food with little or no effort, people tend to forget about their health and resort to ready-made food.

 

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Being cheated on in love and relationship:

If you are talking about being cheated in love or in any relationship, then there is also greed or high expectations or self-gratification desire is working. Instead of building emotional bonds with each other, instead of thinking about what can contribute to each other, they calculate what they got from each other, what they will get. The expectation of each other increases day by day. Whenever such expectation is not fulfilled one becomes a cheater and the other a cheated. When greed arises in a relationship, love will disappear from it, even a little sympathy will disappear. Greed is a vulgar feeling that blinds people, this trap make people lose their self esteem, forget their self-identity. 

How to cope with cheating:

As human beings, all of us have desires for good food, good sex, high quality property, less work, more comfort and so on. In order to fulfill those aspirations, people resort to simple and shortcuts without patience, without persistence, without improving themselves, without working hard, the result is being cheated. Once a person is cheated, he suffers from inferiority complex for sometimes, gets angry and hates himself, but after a while he forgets everything and steps back into the same trap. Fraudsters through out the the world have spread their net to take advantage of this weak human feeling. 

The weak feelings of greed and the desire for complacency are programmed into the unconscious mind in such a way that self-control becomes very hard even with a thousand conscious efforts. It is good to have aspirations because without aspirations you will be stuck in one place. You will not be able to make progress. Aspirations motivate people, Helps us to set our goals and get there, helps us to grow with the passage of time. Don't go for the tempting, easy-going, be confident, rely on your own abilities and prepare yourself mentally in that way, never be cheated in life.

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There is nothing free in this world and the hope of fulfilling a dream by falling from the sky is in vain. Those who dream or believe in such dreams must be cheated in life. The wheel of fortune of the extreemly successful people did not turn and take them to that height, for which they had to work hard and spend a lot of time and sacrifice a lot. There is a lot of pursuit behind their success. Nothing happened suddenly or in a day. If lottery or gambling could make people successful or millionaires, then many people in the world today  would belong into the category of millionaires. 

Until people have learned to understand themselves, to be able to control their greed, they have to be cheated. Those who understand this weakness of human beings and understand this psychology will cheat people in this way. Sometimes people are cheated by the cheater to get out of adversity to get out of life's challenges. People have the power to get out of any difficult situation if they can keep away themselves from greed.